directed by Yorgos Lanthimos
UK, USA, Ireland
121 minutes
5 stars out of 5
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This is the closest Yorgos Lanthimos has gotten to making a straight-up horror movie. I recognize that the events of the film are pretty open for interpretation, and a lot of people would argue that everything was a product of intense psychological manipulation rather than some supernatural force, but I think we can have both. I think, after a point, the level of mind games and manipulation in this film become something supernatural, or at least the line between the two becomes so blurred as to become functionally useless.
If you're not familiar with Lanthimos' directorial style (or if you've only seen The Favourite, which is more "normal"), a little background: Every single one of his movies has the same perfectly deadpan line delivery from all characters at all times. I could count on one hand the number of times anybody in his films shows an emotion. Banter that would be inconsequential is delivered with no trace of human warmth, so a discussion about wristwatches becomes something that feels deeply alien. The things people say aren't necessarily that weird (although bringing up your daughter's first period to a coworker is... not exactly wholesome), but the way every actor delivers every line makes it feel like Lanthimos' films are all populated with bizarre creatures pretending to be human.
The Killing of a Sacred Deer... I really don't know how to describe it or talk about it. There's so much to unpack. The first thing that comes to mind is how it utilizes a plot that, while not exactly light entertainment, is not unheard of: The idea of having to kill or sacrifice one member of your family to save the rest of them. But while this concept is ostensibly the main focus of the film, it doesn't feel that way. It doesn't feel like it's a movie about anything, it just feels like a voyeuristic look into the lives of imitation people. This film, and Yorgos Lanthimos' others, defy the idea that cinema should, on some level, reflect reality. It's like he's using humans to play roles that were written for living room furniture.
Despite the opacity of almost everything about this, however, there are themes I recognized, namely the horror of the nuclear family unit- this is something I've seen discussed recently, as so many new horror films are turning to the nuclear family as the source of all tension and discomfort (Hereditary in particular). There is one instance in this entire movie where somebody behaves like a normal person, and it's when Nicole Kidman's character confronts Colin Farrell in their kitchen, dressing him down for doing nothing while his family suffers. Her brief monologue there is the only time I felt like someone was showing a logical reaction to what was happening. And Farrell's character immediately reacts by asserting dominance in an altogether rather macho way, tossing dishes around and shouting and making a wreck of the kitchen- which, implicitly, through the enforcement of gender roles, is his wife's domain. His wife dares to step up against him and so he ruins her space. His character's trajectory as a whole seems to be an encapsulation of the masculine Western father figure. He has one moment of emotional breakdown throughout the whole film and he has to do it outside of his house, away from everybody, lest they see him feeling anything.
At the heart of this movie is an old-fashioned curse put on the main character's family, as mentioned before, that will cause them all to die painfully unless he kills one of them. This curse is the revenge of the son of a patient he accidentally killed. The son is by far the most terrifying part of this movie and is genuinely one of the most unsettling characters I've ever seen because he so obviously has immense power, but he doesn't reflect it outwardly. I had these moments, especially in the final scene, where I couldn't help but see him as God. He effortlessly ruins these peoples' lives and does it without any particular malice, without a real feeling of hatred or a held grudge. He's so utterly calm and untroubled by everything he inflicts upon the family that it seems to take no more effort than brushing your teeth in the morning. A character like that who is not only extremely powerful but either unaware of or aware of and unbothered by their power is something really disturbing.
I rated this five stars because I don't really know what else to do with it. Certain scenes from it are probably going to stick in my mind forever. The daughter calmly demanding that she be killed, professing her worshipful love for her father and brother. Both children dragging themselves around on paralyzed legs. The look of- triumph? hatred? satisfaction? on the family's faces at the end. What I found more disturbing than anything else was that those same most upsetting scenes became almost funny after a while of watching them, and I could see Yorgos Lanthimos' intent for this to be a black comedy. There's so much here, conceptually, in such a layered and tense package.